S(HE)

He:
- takes out the trash
- walks the dogs after dark
- pulls hair balls out of the bathtub drain
- gives her nightly back massages
- opens doors
- drives them when they are in the car together
- works long hours and earns the primary income

She:
- makes the meals
- pays the bills
- remembers special events, sends out birthday cards and gets Christmas gifts
- knows exactly where things are when he can't find them
- manages the money
- plans vacations
- does the laundry

They:
- acknowledge the other's hard work
- thank each other daily for even the smallest of things
- work as a team to get everything done
- realize that their duties aren't always equal or balanced but pick up the slack when needed because that's what marriage is all about